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Sports Chaplaincy

This is a difficult post for me.  For most of the time I have been in ministry, I have been involved with ministry to sports teams.  I have a game ball in my office that was given to me by the high school team in Winnfield, Louisiana in 1985. I also worked with high school student athletes in New Orleans, … Continue Reading

Recent Lessons on Personal Growth

Challenge and Adventure

During worship early each morning, I post something to Twitter and Facebook. What I post usually is a thought that arises during my time in Scripture and prayer. Sometimes that thought flows out of something happening in the culture or something that is on the minds of many believers. Such was the case yesterday. I […]

Terminated Youth Ministers

Being terminated might be one of the most stressful and painful experiences a youth minister can have. If you have been terminated or you fear you may be, here are few random thoughts: Even if we have never met, I hurt for you. This world is marked by the Curse. Completely. And that is how […]

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Recent Lessons on Professional Growth

Don’t Forget to Play

I have an internet class for the first time, which is both terrifying and ironic.  When you have an internet class as an instructor, it never lets you clock out.  It follows you home, it invades your smart phone, and it knows no hours.  So I was stressing out about the beginning of the semester […]

Accountability

Accountability is one of those words that has lost its meaning through overuse.  It is a helpful concept, but it may have been over spiritualized with “accountability partners,” “accountability groups,” “accountability software” and so on. Nothing is wrong with all of that as long as it is not “Christianese” for the latest fad or trend. […]

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Recent Lessons on Relational Growth

Relating to an Increasingly Narcissistic Generation

Social media and a “me-centered” popular culture have driven our teenagers to a level of narcissism possibly never seen before. What does youth ministry look like in an age of selfies and self-promotion? What guidance can we give to teenagers and to their families? For the last 10 years or so, some of us who […]

Relating to God through the Sabbath

Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy: You are to labor six days and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God. You must not do any work—you, your son or daughter, your male or female slave, your livestock, or the foreigner who is within your […]

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Recent Lessons on Spiritual Growth

The Youth Leader as a Parent

Children tend to become lifetime disciples when they live with parents who love Jesus, exude Jesus, talk about Jesus, and connect like Jesus. Each of these five factors merits careful attention. Parents who love Jesus supremely The heart always is the key. Youth leaders can be parents who: Respond with gratitude for grace and the […]

Teenagers, Revival, and You

Awakening is a church saturated with the supremacy of Christ by the Spirit of Christ. God floods His church with fresh hope, passion, prayer, and mission by refocusing believers on Christ for all He really is. The awakening then spills into the community and cannot be stopped. Is an awakening to Christ possible in your […]

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